Our daily schedule has undergone some major changes recently. First,
Sarah is finally weaned - hooray! It happened in February right after our Knoxville trip. I was more then ready, and although I was worried it would be a hard transition for Sarah since she knew how to ask to nurse with her
"milk" sign, I was pleasantly surprised with how easy it was! I was also worried that this would disrupt our nap
schedule - I knew we were almost ready to transition from two to one nap and I
wasn't quite ready for her to give the morning nap up. Thankfully I over-thought this
one and she gave not a peep of complaint as I dropped each feeding, first at bedtime and then the two before-nap feedings. After she was weaned, I realized that it had actually been a while since she was asking
to nurse - I guess I timed it right since she's become almost as
attached to her milk sippy as Nathan is to his!
One of
the changes I wanted to make this year to our schedule was have some
dedicated Bible time for the kids. After over-thinking this one too, trying to figure out where to best fit this into our schedule, one day I
finally just decided to give it a go and read one quick bible story
with Nathan and Sarah before Sarah's first nap. Nathan's always wanting
to join us in Sarah's room to read books before her nap anyway, so I thought it might work well. Well,
one story in and this became our new routine before naps
and bedtimes - Bible story time in Sarah's room! Nathan
immediately
began requesting bible stories before afternoon naps and then at
bedtime. For some reason, his first favorite bible story was "The
Tall Tower" (Tower of Babel), although I'm not really sure what made him
love this story so much. Now he's moved on to a bigger variety of stories, with the one about God calling for Samuel when he's a boy in the tabernacle as his new favorite.
We also are working on some
bible verse memorization after I got inspired by a blog post I read. We're not doing anything high pressure, I even decided
that if Nathan wasn't interested in cooperating, I would just say the
verse a few times by myself. We started with Genesis 1:1 which I knew
he still remembered from his toddler Sunday school class. We quickly
moved onto John 3:16, which he learned in about a week, and now we're working on John 13:34-35 which emphasizes loving one another. Nathan was super gung-ho about this for the first few weeks, but now sometimes he tells me he's "too tired" (since its right before nap or bed) to say the memory verses. But I've decided there's no reason to force the issue and get frustrated about it, so we just say them when he's willing.
About two weeks after I stopped nursing Sarah at night, Brian mentioned
that maybe it was time for him to start putting Sarah to bed. And it
was a huge success! In fact, this is probably the best daddy/daughter
time he has with her since she's so attached to me whenever I'm around.
Brian said the other night that he was a distant fifth place in her
list of favorite people, behind Nana and Gran and some mysterious fourth
person. But I'm loving that they now have some special happy time
together. Bonus - Sarah's been sleeping lots better since Brian has put
her to bed. It may be Daddy's special touch, or it could also be related to...
Sarah's
dropped down to one nap! After about five days of terrible
napping in early March (skipped afternoon naps, super afternoon short naps), I finally gave in
and decided to start skipping morning naps. I have been reluctant to
because I REALLY love the extra "me" time I have on Tuesdays/Thursdays
when Nathan's at preschool and Sarah's napping. I am usually SO
productive with computer stuff (blogging, photo editing, etc.) during
these times (since I don't do computer things while the kids are awake). But I knew it wouldn't last all year and I'm just thankful
it lasted as long as it did. The benefit, of course, is that now we're
not so tied down in the mornings. On our first no-nap day,
the kids and I ran all kinds of errands, everyone was cheerful AND we
got home in plenty of time to have a leisurely lunch and pre-nap routine. Sarah really adjusted quickly to the new schedule, not getting too tired or fussy in the mornings (as long as I keep her fed), and about half the time she's already giving me a 3 hour afternoon nap - which means that I am getting back some "me" time while she sleeps and Nathan watches his post-nap TV!
With all these changes in the past month our days are now running more smoothly then ever and I couldn't be happier!